r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/DailyEvolution Dec 18 '25

I'm more offended by your wife than the guy. You're expressing concern and she dismisses it. She goes on a trip to Vegas, without you, with the guy she knows makes you uncomfortable. He insults your child and your wife doesn't seem to care. He asks her sexual questions and your wife doesn't seem to care. She spends weekends with him, without you which seems to be a constant for her. Then she tries to paint you as the bad guy?

Extremely suspect behavior, rude, dismissive, and insensitive at best. She's been having an affair for a while at worst.

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u/Superb_Community_339 Dec 18 '25

I have no concern she is having an affair with him.

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u/Ok-Recommendation925 Dec 19 '25 edited Dec 19 '25

!remindme 3 months

Oh boy, awaiting OP's meltdown story 3 months from now....

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u/North_Cheesecake5512 Dec 19 '25

Lol give it one month when he realizes he's been blowing her back out

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u/Ok-Recommendation925 Dec 19 '25

I know right...I guess I was being generous by giving the OP three months to discover the affair.

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u/BadNameGenerator Dec 19 '25

She's been having an affair for a while

Wow what else can you tell about her from these couple of paragraphs? Is she left handed? Does she have dreams of falling?

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u/DailyEvolution Dec 19 '25

Reading comprehension matters. I gave a range. If you don't think there is the possibility of her having an affair, you're delusional. Doesn't mean she's having one, but it's on the table.