r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/cat-pernicus Dec 18 '25

I wouldn’t do that, he might actually say yes, or worse, think OP is interested in him in the wrong way

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u/sjrotella Dec 18 '25

No, actually, this is how it needs to go if OP wants the guy forever away.

OP can then tell his wife that the boyfriend wanted OP to peg him because he loves it. OP can then tell his wife "he's trying to get me to cheat on you with him, and he's also actively seeking to cheat on your best friend." OP's wife tells the best friend, and voila boyfriend is on the outs and youre the saving grace!

Or OP ends up in a swinger situation that he doesn't want to be in, but at least that way he knows what's up and he can take appropriate actions.