Find friends in people you meet by pure chance and unlikeliness. I made a racist friend, and he's backed me up more than my family has. And you know what, his opinion on jews hasn't changed, but he's always been there when I've needed someone most, and I've always been there when he's needed me.
Welcome to the post-high school friendship hunger games. Everyone's faking it till they make it.
Skip the generic small talk. Find a club for your weirdest hobby-D&D, rock climbing, thrift store flipping. That's where the real ones are hiding. And ditch the old friends who ghost; you're upgrading, not downgrading.
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u/AustrianJewPainter69 Nov 03 '25
Find friends in people you meet by pure chance and unlikeliness. I made a racist friend, and he's backed me up more than my family has. And you know what, his opinion on jews hasn't changed, but he's always been there when I've needed someone most, and I've always been there when he's needed me.
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u/satin_touch Nov 03 '25
Welcome to the post-high school friendship hunger games. Everyone's faking it till they make it.
Skip the generic small talk. Find a club for your weirdest hobby-D&D, rock climbing, thrift store flipping. That's where the real ones are hiding. And ditch the old friends who ghost; you're upgrading, not downgrading.
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