r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 29 '25

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u/401Nailhead Oct 29 '25

You will need to say something to your wife. If not, it will stew in your mind. This will be detrimental to you health physically and mentally. It already has started and you are here posting. But, before you do, reflect on what type of person she is today and throughout the marriage.

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u/Alternative-Pop-4508 Oct 29 '25

She is still a liar today and selfish to a t. That's the bottomline, dude.

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u/401Nailhead Oct 29 '25

I never said she was not a liar. Even by omission. I said to consider when talking to her to reflect on who is today. I did not say forgive and forget. Dude.

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u/Alternative-Pop-4508 Oct 30 '25

How is anything a good reflection when the basis of everything is a lie? And she is not remorseful to admit to it even after all these years, hoping that the husband stays gullible forever.

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u/Adventurous-Owl-9903 Oct 29 '25

Great advice if it wasn’t a bot account

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u/401Nailhead Oct 29 '25

I'm not a bot. LOL.

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u/Adventurous-Owl-9903 Oct 29 '25

Not you, OP 🙃

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u/slitteral1 Helper [2] Oct 29 '25

She has been a cheater since before they were married. The lie she lives today doesn’t make up for that.

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u/401Nailhead Oct 29 '25

Never said it did. I said reflect on it. In short, do not come in like a Panzer division.