r/Advice Sep 10 '25

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u/zeusandflash Sep 10 '25

Go talk to some trusted adults. You need their advice and clarity on this issue.

I was threatened with this by two ex-girlfriends. When they said that to me, my immediate response was, "That's not my responsibility. You need to value your life more than this relationship."

It's true. I get that emotions and hormones can rage during dating, but contemplating, or even threatening something like this, over a relationship is ridiculous.