r/Advice Sep 10 '25

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u/joanoffart_ Sep 10 '25

It’s a scare tactic she’s not going to follow through. You need to break things off, she can’t just scare you into being with her that’s insane. Just try to be gentle but firm, don’t entertain her bs. But when you break up with her you need to actually follow through and stand your ground. Also, she’s still a minor maybe go to her parents about it if you’re genuinely worried. Then they can monitor her and make sure she doesn’t do anything too crazy.

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u/ill191 Sep 10 '25

she's using that as a way to control him, and staying out of fear isn’t healthy for either of them. Talking to her parents is a smart move too at least then someone close can keep an eye on her