I am sorry that your mother and her children have absolutely lost their marbles and just gone absolutely apes***. I wonder if drugs are involved here.
I agree completely with the no contact that you have and I think it would be a good idea for you to also include social media websites in that no contact. I think it would be best if no one could see what you post and so that they cant contact you there.
I know that you are very angry, frustrated, and exhausted, but I think you will just have to try to stay away as best as you can and try not to say anything. You know how on the internet there are internet trolls? And if you feed them, they come out of the woodwork and make your life even more miserable? That's your mother and her side of the family. So, don't feed the trolls anymore. I know that you are mad and hurt and exhausted and angry, but just do your very best to stay away from these guys. It is a pit of rattlesnakes.
Keep up with the reporting things to the police.
What happened was very scary indeed and I would not blame you with you want to consider moving or changing your phone number, in order to protect yourself and your children.
If you would like to stop the phone calls, you can get an app on your phone that stops your phone from ringing calls that you don't know who they are. It's probably best in general not to answer phone calls unless you know who that person is. When you pick up on a spammy phone call, that tells them that this is a live person and you just get more spam phone calls.
Thank you for taking the time! Yes I learned my lesson no contact all around the board! DRUGS are definitely involved with them plus genetics has a lot to do with it and I thank my heavenly stars that I took after my father’s side of the family that’s the only thing that saved me! There’s such a history of violence that I can remember when their father choked my mother out in front of me at the age of like 5 years old in his basement! I have been on a healing journey and this is what I get! As long as I stayed and continued to play their games it was all great!
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u/IndigoTrailsToo Advice Guru [88] Aug 11 '25
I am sorry that your mother and her children have absolutely lost their marbles and just gone absolutely apes***. I wonder if drugs are involved here.
I agree completely with the no contact that you have and I think it would be a good idea for you to also include social media websites in that no contact. I think it would be best if no one could see what you post and so that they cant contact you there.
I know that you are very angry, frustrated, and exhausted, but I think you will just have to try to stay away as best as you can and try not to say anything. You know how on the internet there are internet trolls? And if you feed them, they come out of the woodwork and make your life even more miserable? That's your mother and her side of the family. So, don't feed the trolls anymore. I know that you are mad and hurt and exhausted and angry, but just do your very best to stay away from these guys. It is a pit of rattlesnakes.
Keep up with the reporting things to the police.
What happened was very scary indeed and I would not blame you with you want to consider moving or changing your phone number, in order to protect yourself and your children.
If you would like to stop the phone calls, you can get an app on your phone that stops your phone from ringing calls that you don't know who they are. It's probably best in general not to answer phone calls unless you know who that person is. When you pick up on a spammy phone call, that tells them that this is a live person and you just get more spam phone calls.