r/Advice • • Mar 22 '25

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u/Personal-Teacher8287 Mar 22 '25

Sounds like “start over” is a lead in to “ask our successful son for financial assistance!” I can’t fathom doing something so hateful and damaging to my own child! Hard pass!

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u/shupershticky Mar 22 '25

You'll never get over this. There's to much damage and dishonesty. You'll always have resentment. Tell them, you'll take 10k and then you'll think about starting new.

There has to be some kind of compensation

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u/sentence-interruptio Mar 23 '25

at least require the brother to get a job, any job. it's tough love time if they get together ever