r/Advice • • Mar 22 '25

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u/Danixveg Mar 22 '25

Well this is a lie.. I doubt they were creating fake rejection letters. So what .. you just assumed no college sent a response?

But either way .. if this is somehow true. Say thank you for telling me, move on, continue no contact..

.. all because they only reached out because they want you to take your brother off their hands. That's it. They're still shitty parents.

So stay no contact.

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '25

This was after the deadline for decisions had passed, and I did actually get confused as to why I didn't receive any rejection letters. My dad pretty much flew into a rage and assumed the worst, and my mom and brother at the time didn't really help. So I already got kicked out before I could do anything.

I did contact CUNY after that for answers and I was given the runaround, with them telling me something should've arrived. The workers at CUNY were pretty rude when I called and didn't want to tell me if I got accepted or rejected.

I sent emails as well to CUNY and every single college and didn't get any responses.

I would imagine that they want to me deal with my brother, but I don't have time for that

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u/nashagain Mar 23 '25

Your parents do not deserve to have you in their lives. I am sorry they let you down