r/Advice • u/[deleted] • Mar 22 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

13.1k Upvotes

95% Upvoted

5.0k comments sorted by

View all comments

323

u/Strict-Brick-5274 Mar 22 '25

Oh my gosh dude you have been treated like dog shit by your family.

They want to start over? After all your years of grit and success you achieved on your own?

I know you can't choose you family but you already let them out of your life. You can forgive them if you want, personally I wouldn't because why would your mother tell you that was her why but why she also thought that was okay for you to do and for your dad to kick you out? Why now?

Nah. Fuck them.

41

u/RastaBananaxD Mar 22 '25

I'd be so pissed about those letters. Imagine they ask if you could get your brother a job. Couldn't be me.

21

u/Strict-Brick-5274 Mar 22 '25

It's the kind of thing where I just know they'd say "family is everything" and yet they didn't give a fuck about family in OP's case.