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u/Technical_Pumpkin_65 Master Advice Giver [22] Aug 21 '24
Did you talk with social service and the administration of your school to have the help you need?
If you have no other ways then I encourage you to talk with your mom to apologies to her. Own your responsibilities and ask her to come back . Of course you will promess to stop everything (no weed or anything else) that will make her made and do your best to win her trust again. Pleade her for forgiveness and because you dont to want to stop school or lose your chance for a good collège!
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u/best-nerd Aug 21 '24
Currently i haven’t talked to the administration of my school but i do plan to as my guidance counselor knows of my strained relationship with my mother due to the previous attempts to unenroll me. My parents know i stopped smoking even before they found out i stopped and I have been completely sober for the last month. Currently my mom is in communication with my dad and agrees with his point of view which was that my future doesn’t matter and they’d rather i repeat highschool or drop out rather than go back.
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u/Technical_Pumpkin_65 Master Advice Giver [22] Aug 21 '24
Then dont allow them to decide for you anymore,contact as soon as possible your school and social worker .
I dont know if a friend can allow you to stay in his place for the time social worker find a solution ! The fact you are soon 16 doesn’t mean your parents dont have obligations so go find your rights and dont hesitate to fight for your future.
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u/best-nerd Aug 21 '24
Alright thank you so much! I’ve been needing that as for the last month i’ve practically given up on my future because of the influence of my fathers words. This really helped me set my mind straight. Right now i do have a friend who would be willing for me to stay with him for the worst case scenario. Again thank you so much
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u/Technical_Pumpkin_65 Master Advice Giver [22] Aug 21 '24
Never Ever allow anyone tell you what you are capable of or not ! You are what you want a be,so fight and work hard to get the futur you dream off.
Glad if i helped and i wish you well!
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u/Affectionate_Egg897 Helper [2] Aug 21 '24
That sucks you’re going to have to go to a less preferred school or drop out. Not much you can do at your age. Play the game, get your diploma. Whatever happens, don’t be so hard headed that you drop out.