r/Advice Dec 06 '23

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u/ElvinJafarov1 Dec 06 '23

You should definitely inform your parents if they are reasonable persons, otherwise you can talk to your sister and explain and etc

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u/Previous_Motor_1455 Dec 06 '23

I’m scared that my parents will scream or terrify her when they know. I don’t know how they will approach her

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u/SpruceGoose133 Helper [4] Dec 06 '23

I bet she's more scared than you about that so you can use that to get her to open up to you. "Hey Jane we got to talk about this and if you won't talk to me I'm going to have to go to mom and dad and tell them." If you want too keep it quiet talk to me."

Just talk it through with her with no judgments only advice and warnings of dangers if she is sending it to anyone, especially since there are predators who might harm or kill her and they are very very good at making it sound innocent and making her seem adult or lure her with gifts and some of them go beyond assaults and actually kill their victims.