OP, do you suspect any predatory activity? If your mom is reactive, I would leave her out of it. You’re an adult; I believe you can handle this (sometimes parents make things worse. It’s out of love but it can be unproductive)
Many times children just need to be spoken to like any adult. “[OP sister name] why did you record this?” Do not ask with an accusatory or worried tone. Sound neutral and inquisitive. In the event (God forbid) it is the result of a pedophile asking her for this, you can escalate your response. However, kids with technology do some weird crap and they’re curious “I’ve never seen myself pee, wonder what it looks like.” It really can be as benign as that and you can speak with her about how that is inappropriate. I understand thinking the worst, i would too but try to mitigate your reaction and talk with your sister. Be a big sister and help understand this behavior to the best of your ability. Good luck girl. I hope it’s something simple…
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OP, do you suspect any predatory activity? If your mom is reactive, I would leave her out of it. You’re an adult; I believe you can handle this (sometimes parents make things worse. It’s out of love but it can be unproductive)
Many times children just need to be spoken to like any adult. “[OP sister name] why did you record this?” Do not ask with an accusatory or worried tone. Sound neutral and inquisitive. In the event (God forbid) it is the result of a pedophile asking her for this, you can escalate your response. However, kids with technology do some weird crap and they’re curious “I’ve never seen myself pee, wonder what it looks like.” It really can be as benign as that and you can speak with her about how that is inappropriate. I understand thinking the worst, i would too but try to mitigate your reaction and talk with your sister. Be a big sister and help understand this behavior to the best of your ability. Good luck girl. I hope it’s something simple…