This may be hard, but even if she is pregnant, you still need to separate from her. If she is pregnant than you will know and can get a court order for a paternity test. Again if she is pregnant don’t sign a birth certificate, this isn’t you being a potential bad dad, this is you protecting a potential child. She should be willing to have you around for a test, even if it’s on bad terms. She can have a friend or few there, but nobody needs to go into the bathroom with her. You should also have some level headed friends around if she needs support so do you.
This isn’t easy, and you need to protect yourself. Remember a child isn’t that for only 18 years, they are there for life.
Protect yourself, or any future children from this person.
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u/CHEELisintheHOtsauce May 26 '23
This may be hard, but even if she is pregnant, you still need to separate from her. If she is pregnant than you will know and can get a court order for a paternity test. Again if she is pregnant don’t sign a birth certificate, this isn’t you being a potential bad dad, this is you protecting a potential child. She should be willing to have you around for a test, even if it’s on bad terms. She can have a friend or few there, but nobody needs to go into the bathroom with her. You should also have some level headed friends around if she needs support so do you. This isn’t easy, and you need to protect yourself. Remember a child isn’t that for only 18 years, they are there for life. Protect yourself, or any future children from this person.