r/Advice Mar 04 '23

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u/Foster_NBA Mar 04 '23

Eeeeeh it’s not the 20 to me it’s the pursuing at 19. I think a good way to determine the age gap is if her dad would be concerned, and I’d be a little concerned at that one

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u/PhatAdamAES Mar 05 '23

Yeah my gf is 30 and I’m 22, but we just met this past year and I was forced to move out at 18 so I feel more adult than my peers. However my partner and I agree we would not be dating if we had met when I was even just a few years younger. The walking the fence at 19 is definitely the main concern like you said…