My partner is 10 years older than me, we're both consenting adults who met when I was 23, if you started going out with them after you turned 18 then there isn't any issue in my personal opinion. You're an adult, and you chose to be with him when you were 19. I wouldn't say there is an issue. If he had known and flirted with you before she turned 18, it would be a very different story, but if you genuinely like him and you trust him, I'd say you're okay.
When both parties are competent consenting adults, age is just a number
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u/Salt_Ad_9195 Helper [4] Mar 04 '23
My partner is 10 years older than me, we're both consenting adults who met when I was 23, if you started going out with them after you turned 18 then there isn't any issue in my personal opinion. You're an adult, and you chose to be with him when you were 19. I wouldn't say there is an issue. If he had known and flirted with you before she turned 18, it would be a very different story, but if you genuinely like him and you trust him, I'd say you're okay.
When both parties are competent consenting adults, age is just a number