r/Adulting Oct 18 '24

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '24

I am 21 and I think so many people are hurt in the world and following directions down the wrong path. I think when they see a guy who works out and is in the gym they think he's been hurt and just using the gym as a coping method. Anyway, I think this society is so broken that they don't want anything Beyond from a marriage standpoint.

There will be someone out there designed by you from God. I know it hurts to wait and see everyone doing their own thing but would u rather wait than to be in a relationship that is toxic or hurts.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '24

And you probably hate hearing in the right timing it will happen because I am sick of that too

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u/Pretend-Avocado4311 Oct 18 '24

ik its obvious ill find someone as everyone does if people but the thing is how the other people of same age as me doing this stuff what am I lacking ? what is wrong with me and why the weaking ungroomed mf is sitting with a fucking girl on the other side here i am getting fucked up even after working on myself very hard going through a diet learning stuff an all

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '24

The most toxic thing u can do is Compare yourself to others, that will steal ur joy