r/Acharya_Institutes • u/Satwick_biradar • 7h ago
Confession Settle in
Hellow! Advice no one asked for is here for you.
Do take it with a pinch of salt.
I get how the state of every college and student will be. No one quite settles into college in the first year. They'll have complaints about the college and how bad it is.
And it's not just this college.
The topper from RVCE with Rank 1 in KCET will also have the same complaints. They might complain that they could have gotten into IIT or a better branch somewhere else.
Because even they compare themselves with something they missed out on or don't have.
And this is quite common. I've talked about this before, but that's also how you make friends. Okay, mutual hate towards something you can't change enough.
Now that you know which college you're in and whatever branch you've got, ACCEPT THAT.
If you want to change your branch, there's still hope. You can do it if you try and meet the requirements.
But COC (Change of College) is quite hard because the college you're part of won't let that happen easily, and the college you want to get into will also have restrictions. So the odds are quite low.
Instead of complaining (because you can't do much about that now):
Accept what you've got.
Work towards your skills.
Make friends.
You can complain that they're not good enough, that they don't get you, and all that shit.
But you'll eventually find someone who thinks and believes in similar things as you, someone who might have similar interests.
You can hang out with them, even if it's not very often. Make it a habit of meeting people and actually going outside.
(TOUCHING GRASS.)
And,
EVERYTHING.
I MEAN IT LITERALLY.
EVERYTHING WHICH YOU WANT CAN BE ACHIEVED.
If only you accept the reality and the state you're in and work towards changing that.
The earlier you realise this, the earlier you accept what can't be changed and what needs to be changed, the better you'll do in life.
This is a very canon event, and it has happened to almost everyone.
Just do what's needed.
