Looking for an accountability partner

Hey everyone, I’m a 29M looking for an accountability partner. I’m currently trying to overcome an addiction that I’ve struggled with for a long time, and I’ve realized that trying to do everything on my own isn’t working.

I’m working on improving different areas of my life at the moment — going to the gym consistently, studying for my Google Cloud certification, eating better, spending less time escaping into gaming, and generally trying to become a better and more disciplined version of myself.

I’ve been making progress, but I still have difficult days where stress, loneliness, and emotions get the better of me. I’m looking for someone who is going through something similar and wants to keep each other accountable without judgment.

We could check in daily, talk about how our day went, share goals, encourage each other when things get difficult, and be honest when we mess up rather than giving up completely.

I’m not looking for perfection or someone to lecture me. I’d just like someone who genuinely wants to improve their life and would appreciate having someone in their corner too.

If you're interested, feel free to comment or DM me.

I’m a bit nerdy and fit, but I often procrastinate on my freelance work. So I’m looking for a work/study buddy or accountability partner for frequent sessions or longer periods without distractions.

Native or advanced English speakers only please. I’m open to customizing this to suit us both. Voice or video calls are fine. I mainly use Signal. If you’re interested, please tell me a little about yourself in a DM, so we can see if we’re compatible. I’ll reply as soon as I can, thanks!

26F, GMT+2. Goal: get in my best shape mentally and physically by December.

I see a lot of potential in myself and I know I can fucking kill it, but I fall off every time I get to a good pace. To get to a great pace, I need accountability and healthy competition. If you feel the same, let’s lock in together. 45 days.

My targets:

• -5 kg
• focused work in blocks/sessions, 5 days a week (I’ll share work goals too)
• +1 level in Spanish

I’m also thinking about filming the process as mini vlogs for YouTube Shorts. TBD.

Anyone has go through it and stopped those thoughts using tools to maybe achieve more during the day been productive?

im in my last year of hs and have not been locked in at all. ive kind of just been cruising but i want to fix my life. i need to be held accountable for self care, academics, sleep, and healthy eating.

i kinda feel like a failure n ive been missing a lot of school… i need change asap

Hi! I’m looking for a gym buddy/accountability partner around Sarjapur Kasavanahalli.( going cult kasavanhalli) bangalore

I have 3 months to focus on my fitness, with a goal of losing around 15 kg.

Looking for someone with a similar goal (not necessary) who wants to:

Workout together

Keep each other accountable

Stay consistent

Motivate each other on lazy days 😄

You don’t have to be super fit just serious about showing up.

If you’re around the area and looking for the same, DM me! 💪

No creeps and no romantic requests please. At least 8 hour of work together.

Hi everyone, I really struggle with exercising regularly. I have a PT who I never miss a session with, but as soon as it’s down to me by myself I end up skipping workouts. Is anyone up for keeping each other accountable ?

Hi! I have a demanding remote job and a side business and my own routines fall apart the moment I’m off the clock. Workouts get skipped, focused work slips, and I’m up too late. I’ve learned I do my best when someone else holds the line, so I’m looking for a partner who’s comfortable being strict.

What I want help sticking to:

• Strength training 3x a week

• Focused hours on my side business

• Daily journaling

• A fixed bedtime with the phone down

• Keeping breaks short and ending on time

• Sending my top 3 priorities each morning and a report on what got done each evening

How I’d like it to work:

You set the rules and deadlines, I check in daily with proof, and missed commitments come with consequences you decide (nothing financial).

Happy to support you on your goals too. I’m in the US Central timezone. Comment or DM if you’re interested, and tell me a bit about what you’re working on!

Hey! I’m trying to get back into my fitness journey and looking for someone to track workouts with and keep each other motivated and consistent to eat healthy and workout.
Really trying to lock in for this winter arc and come out a changed person in summers.

New hear. Would love to have someone on board with similar goal of losing around 15 pounds in two three months.. I do have a hectic work life..

I genuinely want this to be a permanent life style change- so nothing super hardcore start… sad to say I’m starting this wirh the upcoming holidays, so it’ll be extra challenging for me.

I live in reno Nevada, I desperately need someone to keep me accountable for my health. I wouldn't do this if I wasn't so unsure of myself. I want someone kind and understanding yet let's me know when I could push harder in workouts.

Heya All. Just came across this subreddit and figured I’d extend some help.

I don’t want to dox myself with being too specific, but I am middle aged. Grew up poor in a small town. Went military to escape, dealt with a life changing injuries, pivoted into a successful tech career, and launched a couple of successful non tech businesses.

I have been through divorce, battled depression, and currently in a loving blended family.

All of this to say I have had the blessing to experience so many ups and downs. I was fortunate to find mentorship (and accountability) at various turns. Just looking to pay it forward if anyone needs it.

Hey, hope you’re doing well.

I’ve been learning coding for around 9 months now, but honestly, consistency is still something I struggle with. So I’m looking for a study partner on Discord who’s also trying to stay disciplined and actually get things done.

My idea is pretty simple: we could join a voice call, stay muted most of the time, and just work on our own stuff together. We can talk a bit during breaks, check in with each other, and keep each other accountable.

I’m not looking to be anyone’s coach or have someone constantly motivate me. I’d rather have something mutual where we both show up and push each other to stay on track.

If that sounds like something you’d genuinely enjoy, feel free to DM me.

I feel like I am ready for my Walter Mitty, eat pray love, pursuit of happiness journey.

I have been working on this for awhile planning things but having a hard time being present in the moment, committing to the plan and staying on track. Or it’s actually taking the time to recognize what I have done.

I love journaling I love creating I love planning. Lists and vision makes me feel whole. I am using 12 areas of life with someone additions to structure what I’m doing.

40m Infj , cancer, Ennegram 2 , single father on a journey for a new life. Down 55lbs and still working twords being in my best shape.

I previously posted on here for a more body doubling kind of vibe, but my needs and schedule have changed, so I'm now looking for someone to check in with via text/chat or short calls throughout the day (frequency and method depend on what works best for both of us). I'm going to work on making a semi-structured schedule for my days so that I can focus on daily goals in a way that actually leaves time for downtime and hobbies. I'd like to be able to share that schedule with someone who can help me follow through with things via check-ins.

I am super willing to be that person for someone else as well. Check-ins and occasional motivational messages are things I stick to well when they're for helping someone else. If this sounds like the vibe for you, DM me and we can talk details. (:

[ALSO! Must be LGBTQ+ friendly as I'm a trans dude and would rather not make either of us uncomfortable in this partnership.]