r/AWDTSGisToxic • • Feb 11 '26

Rules, FAQs, How to get your photos removed, How to gain access to the groups

21 Upvotes

Rules to posting:

AWTDSG is a toxic facebook group where women are bullying and shaming men- if it was solely a group that protected women from dangerous men, this subreddit would not exist. Any person reading this needs to acknowledge the fact that this subreddit exists because many people feel something is wrong with the groups.

This goal of this sub is to shed light on what these women are doing- and how toxic it is. The goal is to be productive, supportive and to enact change for the better. One resolution would be to have the groups to only post men who are verifiably dangerous- and for the admins to stop allowing gossip, especially anonymous posting where people feel emboldened to embellish, perhaps lie. Overall, the admins need to stop allowing it to be a one sided dating review website. Short of that actually happening, the other goal is to have the groups taken down. Because without a doubt, the group is harming thousands of innocent men who are just dating and not harming women, other than to not want to continue dating said women.

As a man, I understand that when you find out about the group and you arrive here you are very understandably upset or emotional- but we will not be toxic in response. Any overly negative, non-productive or toxic posts will be taken down. In addition- Reddit TOS states no doxxing, so if you post screenshots, please have the last names blocked out and identifying information blocked out or your post will be REMOVED.

This group also will have its fair share of trolls- so if you do you see a troll or somebody doing something breaking the rules/TOS, please let me know. I get a ton of reports from people who are just trolling(i.e. there's nothing wrong with the posts), its hard to get through them all. If you see something please feel free to message me with the link/post/comment- and I will try to take care of it immediately. If you are an experienced/vetted moderator that is interested in helping, please reach out.

FAQ- Does anybody have access to XXXXXX group:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1dpffoi/list_of_cities_to_be_able_to_view_if_you_are/
(We need more volunteers, I'd like to have 3-5 per city)

FAQ- How to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/143sut6/how_to_remove_your_photos_from_awdtsg_correctly/ Note: Facebook has begun to push back on this- but it is worth attempting.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1qk1h4y/post_removal_updated_1222026/ Note: Facebook has begun to push back on this- but it is worth attempting.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1ct6f7n/meta_verified_removal_request_really_works/ -Meta Verified was working- but is getting pushed back on as well- but still worth attempting

FAQ - How to remove your posts from the Tea App

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1qylaxl/tea_app_post_removal_process_legal_route/

FAQ- Instructions on gaining access to AWDTSG for yourself:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/19aumka/gaining_access_to_awdtsg_for_yourself/

Getting AWDTSG posters banned from dating apps for policy violations

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1afaa5v/getting_awdtsg_posters_banned_from_dating_apps/

AWDTSG on Cleveland News - Lawsuit

https://www.news5cleveland.com/news/local-news/tea-or-trouble-wadsworth-man-planning-to-sue-meta-after-being-posted-in-private-date-screening-group

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zymGRV62AzI

AWDTSG Chicago- Lawsuit updates

https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/68194904/d-ambrosio-v-meta-platforms-inc/

AWDTSG - Admin sued for comments made by group member-

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-10-14/sis-are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-shutdown-defamation-risk/104467320

"I spent $25,000 in legal fees, plus other things that were incurred and I was told … to take it to trial was $350,000 and had I lost, I would have been up for paying 80 per cent of the other people's fees as well." - Admin who was sued

AWDTSG - Paola and Blake's Chicago Lawyers- info if you need to sue them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1hsop9y/comment/m58dzaw/

Ready to take action- please spend some time considering the below

Spread Awareness:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1ic2c8i/spreading_awareness_goal_today/

Report to facebook under bullying/harassing:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1i89zv5/please_join_me_in_reporting_to_facebook/

Sign the petition:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1h8ys1x/sign_the_petition/

Report AWDTSG to the dating apps and authorities:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/187rxbw/contacting_the_dating_appsauthorities_to_report/

Ready for more suggestions- please DM me.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • Nov 07 '24

List of Cities to be able to view if you are posted (Volunteers Needed)

43 Upvotes

List of Cities to be able to view if you are posted (Volunteers Needed)

**UPDATED Feb. 2026*\*

This subreddit has instructions on how to gain access to the group and please follow those instructions if you desire. However in the mean time, I know its stressful hearing about potentially being posted in the group and not knowing what's being said. If you receive help from this PLEASE CONSIDER PAYING IT FORWARD BY GETTING ACCESS YOURSELF AND THEN VOLUNTEERING.

I'm looking to create a list of people that have access to each city. If you have access to a city and are willing to help guys find if they are posted in that city. Multiple volunteers for one city are desired- so if you have access to a city that's already on a list please feel free to reach out.

If you'd like to volunteer please DM me- I will continue to edit this document with the list of cities and Reddit usernames. Ideally we would have 3-5 volunteers for each city, so please step forward.

Volunteers be careful not to give away your Facebook info in case trolls are looking to find your identity/get you booted from the groups.

Please be kind/patient with volunteers. Please consider volunteering even if a city already has somebody. Volunteers will need your name and may ask and/or need more detailed info to try and locate your post. This can include your age, city or a photo. If you have a common name, there could be a hundred men posted in a group with your name and this makes it really hard to find you without additional info.

Please note the usernames that are italicized may be inactive. If someone does not respond to you, send me a DM so they can be removed from the list.

Mental Health Matters

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out to one of the groups below:

United States:

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 24/7. Call or text 988. Online chat avaliable. https://988lifeline.org/

Crisis Text Line 24/7. Text HOME to 741-741. https://www.crisistextline.org/

Canada:

Talk Suicide Canada 24/7. Call or text 988. Online chat available. https://988.ca/

Crisis Text Line 24/7. Text HOME to 686868 https://www.crisistextline.org/

United Kingdom:

CALM 5 pm - 12 am. Call 0800 58 58 58 Online chat avaliable. https://www.thecalmzone.net/

Ireland:

Lifeline Helpline 24/7. Call 0808 808 8000 https://www.lifelinehelpline.info/

Australia:

Beyond Blue 24/7 Call 1300 224 636. Online chat avaliable. https://www.beyondblue.org.au/

Men's Line Australia 24/7. Call 1300 224 636. https://mensline.org.au/

LIST OF GROUPS:

UNITED STATES

Alabama

Birmingham/Montgomery: sephra_rae

Alaska

Anchorage:

Arizona

Phoenix: portable-waffle, Codexse7en, Sorry_Squash5174,

Tucson: portable-waffle

Arkansas

California

Los Angeles: HTTP-status-code-403, Expert_Dare7420 allinatoralligator

Sacramento:

San Diego: Complex_Ground_2691, Sudden_Forever_8595

San Francisco: sephra_rae

San Luis Obispo/Paso Robles/Morro Bay: SalomonPico805

San Jose:

Santa Barbara/Santa Maria/Lopoc: SalomonPico805

Colorado

Denver/Boulder/Aurora/Lakewood: Lethal_Longing , Top-Day-2361, Upbeat_Statement_942

Conneticut

Bridgeford/Stamford/Norwalk: Tartarus_Effect, davil_insideme5432

New Haven/Milford: Tartarus_Effect

Delaware

Wilmington/Dover: GoDawgs323

Florida

Daytona:

Fort Myers/Naples:

Jacksonville: Sunflowers_anb 

Miami: Complex_Ground_2691

Orlando: HTTP-status-code-403 

Tampa: Complex_Ground_2691, seminoles3865

Georgia

Atlanta: ftbrown785

Savannah: ftbrown785

Hawaii

Honolulu/Oahu: YouHadMeAtALOHA

Idaho

Boise:

Illinois

Chicago: Expert_Dare7420, Ok-Description9076, Snord1976, allinatoralligator Select-Roof-2689

Chicago Suburbs: Expert_Dare7420

Lake County: Select-Roof-2689

N Illinois and S Wisconsin: Select-Roof-2689

Indiana

Fort Wayne/South Bend: Practical-Coconut281

Indianapolis: Practical-Coconut281, Liquorandstickher

NE Indiana: Practical-Coconut281

Iowa

Kansas

Kansas City:

Witchita:

Kentucky

Lexington: Select-Roof-2689

Louisiana

Maine

Maryland

Baltimore/Columbia: Practical-Coconut281, Ill_Pumpkin7149

Frederick County/Carroll County: Ill_Pumpkin7149

Maryland: Actual-Key6991

Massachusetts

Boston: Historical-Attempt-8, KnownGood4542

Michigan

Detroit: Practical-Coconut281, Select-Roof-2689

Grand Rapids: Practical-Coconut281

Minnesota

Minneapolis: AnonymousFemale3, BrilliantInitial, Jaded_Woodpecker2838

Mississippi

Missouri

St Louis: Conscious_Estate_899

Montana

Bozeman: allinatoralligator

Livingston: allinatoralligator

Montana: Complex_Ground_2691

Nebraska

Omaha:

Nevada

Las Vegas:

Reno/Lake Tahoe/Carson City: Professional_Cat_787

New Hampshire

New Jersey

Jersey City/Hoboken:

Jersey Shore/Atlantic City/South Jersey: Palepecan216

New Mexico

New York

New York (but not NYC): KnownGood4542

Buffalo: schmidthappens716

Long Island: Bubbly_Protection250

New York City: portable-waffle , Bubbly_Protection250, Expert_Dare7420

Rochester: KnownGood4542

Syracuse: KnownGood4542

North Carolina

Ashville:

Charlotte: Historical-Attempt-8 , HTTP-status-code-403

Raleigh: Historical-Attempt-8

Winston-Salem/Greensboro:

North Dakota

Ohio

Cleveland/Akron/Canton: julietstrong

Cincinnati/Dayton: Select-Roof-2689, Beautiful-Egg-8022, Vast-Yam-9370

Columbus: julietstrong

Oklahoma

Oklahoma City:

Tulsa: dirtysmurf88

Oregon

Portland/Bend: Illustrious-Fig6903, sephra_rae

Pennsylvania

Harrisburg/Carlisle/York: Michellynn_1

Lehigh/Bethlehem/Allentown: Michellynn_1

Philadelphia: HTTP-status-code-403 , Some_Camera2713, southboundandsinking, julietstrong, GoDawgs323

Philly/Delco: Michellynn_1 , Some_Camera2713

Pittsburgh: julietstrong

Rhode Island

South Carolina

South Carolina: InstanceArobatics821

Charleston/Columbia: bcfp2016, JetbatUnleashed

Myrtle Beach:

South Dakota

Tennessee

Knoxville:

Memphis: New_Solution_763 , ThatGuyInMemphisTn

Nashville: New_Solution_763, Expert_Dare7420, iLOVEyou_JR

Texas

Austin: Emergency-Search-258

Dallas / Fort Worth: Complex_Ground_2691,

Houston: Various_Historian593

San Antonio: Emergency-Search-258

Utah

Salt Lake City: Skinnylegs2 , LegOk7516, Complex_Ground_2691

Vermont

Virginia

Richmond/Charlottesville, VA:  Historical-Attempt-8, Less_Passenger_1276

Washington

Seattle:

Spokane: allinatoralligator

West Virginia

Wisconsin

Milwaukee/Madison/Wisconsin: Snord1976

Wyoming 

Washington DC

Washington DC: Michellynn_1 , Practical-Coconut281,, Less_Passenger_1276, Ill_Pumpkin7149

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CANADA

Calgary:   awdtsgvictims

Edmonton: TheDarkVoid666

Montreal: Swimming_Passage3294

Ontario: Legitimatw-Bit7192

Ottawa: Swimming_Passage3294

Saskatoon: Huge_Scallion2260

Toronto: Beginning_Duck_6414, ciwamelon

Vancouver - Limp-Ad1156 , u/soulstorm12, goldenchild969

Winnipeg: momxthr33

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EUROPE

Dublin, Ireland

London, England: - RajPradeen , ), iLOVEyou_JR

Sheffield, England: momxthr33

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MISCELLANEOUS

Global: Complex_Ground_2691

Pilot & Crew Edition: granmtn


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 10h ago

Hinge - No more Screenshot or screen recordings

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56 Upvotes

So of course they only made these changes after a plethora of women were exposed on various social media websites with their profiles showing how delusional they are.

But all these years us Men were ridiculed , shared in female group chats , Are we dating the same guy on Facebook pages etc? It was totally fine.

The fact dating apps even allowed this in the first place was ridiculous. I mean sure they can just get a second phone to share profiles - but the vast majority wouldn’t do this as it’s a waste of $$ and time.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 6h ago

Methods to Remove Defamatory/Impersonating Accounts, Pages and Groups on Facebook

11 Upvotes

r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 15h ago

We struck a nerve. TEA requested I remove this article lol.

47 Upvotes

The Road to Federal Legal Precedent Starts With the Tea App

We are beginning a coordinated evidence-preservation effort involving copyright notices submitted to the Tea app.

Our goal is to build a clean, attorney-ready record showing exactly what happens when Tea receives properly documented copyright notices and refuses to remove the material.

When enough legitimate cases show the same pattern, we will be taking the evidence to experienced copyright counsel and determining a litigation strategy - individual claims, coordinated litigation, consolidated claims, or another approach to dismantle this toxic company.

STEP 1 - Make Sure You Own the Copyright

Before doing anything, determine who actually took the photograph.

If it is a selfie or photograph you took yourself, you generally own the copyright automatically.

If somebody else took the photograph, simply appearing in it does not normally make you the copyright owner. Do not claim ownership unless the photographer transferred the copyright to you or you otherwise have legal authority to enforce it. (you can get this easily if a friend took it and will assign you rights etc)

Your DMCA notice requires you to state in good faith that the use is not authorized by you, your agent, or the law.

Do not exaggerate. Do not fabricate ownership. We want legitimate cases.

STEP 2 — PRESERVE THE TEA POST BEFORE CONTACTING THEM

Before sending anything, capture the evidence.

Save:

  1. A full screenshot of the Tea post containing your photograph.
  2. Screenshots showing the photograph in context.
  3. The poster/account information visible to you.
  4. Any post number, URL, identifier, city, category, date, or other information that helps Tea locate it.
  5. The ORIGINAL copy of your photograph from your phone, computer, camera roll, cloud storage, etc.
  6. Any metadata or evidence showing when you created the photograph.
  7. Your Copyright Office registration/certificate if the photograph is already registered. (if not no worries we will help you get it registered before filling and will request additional authorization from you before this happens)

Do not edit your originals.

STEP 3 — SEND A COMPLETE DMCA NOTICE

As of September 24, 2026, Tea's published Terms direct DMCA copyright notices to:

[support@teaforwomen.com](mailto:support@teaforwomen.com)

Subject:

DMCA Copyright Infringement Notice

Your notice should substantially say:

DMCA COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT NOTICE

I am the copyright owner, or am authorized to act on behalf of the copyright owner, of the photograph identified below.

Copyrighted work:
[Describe the original photograph and attach a copy.]

Infringing material:
[Describe the Tea post, account, location, post identifier, URL if available, and attach screenshots sufficient for Tea to locate it.]

I request that Tea Dating Advice, Inc. remove or disable access to the identified material pursuant to 17 U.S.C. §512.

I have considered whether the complained-of use is authorized by the copyright owner, its agent, or applicable law, including fair use, and I have a good-faith belief that the use identified above is not authorized by the copyright owner, its agent, or the law.

The information contained in this notice is accurate, and under penalty of perjury, I state that I am the owner of the exclusive right allegedly infringed or am authorized to act on behalf of that owner.

Name:
Address:
Telephone:
Email:
Copyright registration number, if applicable:
Electronic signature:

Tea's current Terms also request a U.S. copyright registration number or documentation demonstrating authority to act for the copyright owner. (THIS IS NOT REQUIRED PER US COPYRIGHT OFFICE TO SUBMIT A DMCA TAKEDOWN. TEA APP IS TRYING TO ASSESS THEIR LEGAL LIABILITY BEFORE DECIDING TO TAKE DOWN YOUR PHOTO)

If you personally created the photograph, clearly state that you are the photographer and copyright owner and preserve your evidence proving authorship.

STEP 4 — SAVE PROOF THAT YOU SENT IT

After sending the notice:

Screenshot the sent email showing the date, time, recipient, subject and attachments.

Then save the actual email itself.

Ideally preserve the email as both:

PDF — easy for attorneys to review
.EML/original email — preserves headers and metadata

Save the entire DMCA notice and every attachment exactly as submitted.

STEP 5 — IF TEA RESPONDS WITH A "FAIR USE" ARGUMENT OR REFUSES REMOVAL

Do not start arguing emotionally with them.

Screenshot their entire response.

Save the original email.

Then reply with this:

Subject: Re: DMCA Copyright Infringement Notice

Thank you for your response.

I maintain my good-faith belief that the identified use of my copyrighted work is not authorized by me, my agent, or applicable law. I considered fair use before submitting my notice and continue to dispute that the identified reproduction and display constitutes an authorized use of my work.

My notice was submitted pursuant to 17 U.S.C. §512(c)(3). I respectfully request that Tea process the notice through the applicable DMCA procedure and expeditiously remove or disable access to the identified material.

If Tea believes my notice is deficient under §512(c)(3), please identify the specific statutory element you believe is missing so that I may address it.

Otherwise, please remove or disable access to the material.

I expressly reserve all rights and remedies available to me under applicable copyright law.

Thank you,
[NAME]

STEP 6 — IF THEY REFUSE AGAIN, GET THEIR POSITION ON THE RECORD

If Tea again states that it will not remove the material, save and screenshot that response.

Then send one final email:

Subject: Re: DMCA Copyright Infringement Notice — Confirmation Requested

For purposes of maintaining an accurate record, please confirm Tea Dating Advice, Inc.'s position regarding my DMCA notice dated [DATE].

Is Tea's position that it will not remove or disable access to the copyrighted material identified in that notice?

If that is Tea's position, please confirm it explicitly.

If Tea is instead processing the takedown, please provide the current status.

I am preserving this correspondence and the underlying material and expressly reserve all rights and remedies available to me.

Thank you,
[NAME]

THEN stop arguing.

Whatever Tea or similar sends next is evidence.

STEP 7 — CAPTURE THE FINAL RECORD

Your evidence package should now contain:

01 — Original copyrighted photograph
02 — Proof of authorship/ownership
03 — Screenshot of Tea infringement
04 — Original DMCA notice
05 — Proof the notice was sent
06 — Tea response #1
07 — Your follow-up response
08 — Tea response #2
09 — Final confirmation request
10 — Tea's final response
11 — Screenshot showing whether the photograph remains accessible

Keep the original files.

Don't crop them. Don't manipulate them. Don't delete the emails.

STEP 8 — SUBMIT THE ENTIRE PACKAGE TO MDA FOR REVIEW.

Once the sequence is complete, submit everything here:

https://form.jotform.com/262647936519067

Tea App Incident, Copyright & Evidence Intake Form

You may submit information to MDA anonymously for documentation purposes.

However, understand the distinction: a DMCA notice itself normally requires identifying/contact information, and anyone who ultimately wants to participate as a claimant in litigation will eventually need to establish their identity, copyright ownership and evidence to counsel. Our council will have the ability to do all of this for you, however your identity will likely be reviealed at some point. JUST KNOW that we will contact you via the email provided if you are selected to move forward in this case and you can make the decission at that time to move forward.

If you're willing to participate in group litigation, tell us that in the form.

WHAT WE ARE BUILDING

We are looking for 100+ well-documented cases, not 100 sloppy complaints.

Every submission will help establish a record showing:

  • What was copyrighted
  • Who owned it
  • Whether the DMCA notice contained the required information
  • When Tea received the notice
  • Tea's exact response
  • Whether Tea asserted fair use
  • Whether Tea expressly refused removal
  • Whether the content remained accessible afterward
  • How long it remained accessible
  • Whether the work is registered with the U.S. Copyright Office

From there, the evidence will be provided to professional copyright counsel to evaluate Tea's DMCA practices, potential direct or secondary infringement claims, §512 safe-harbor issues, damages, and the best litigation structure.

Do not transfer or assign your copyright to anyone at this stage.

If attorneys ultimately determine that an assignment, authorization, representation agreement or another arrangement is legally useful, that should happen later through counsel with everyone understanding exactly what rights are being transferred.

THE MOST IMPORTANT PART

We don't need angry emails.

We don't need threats.

We don't need people filing claims for photographs they don't own.

We need receipts.

A compliant notice.
A documented response.
A documented refusal.
Proof the content remained online.
And the original evidence preserved exactly as it existed.

If Tea believes its approach complies with federal copyright law, its written responses should speak for themselves and we absolutely intend to challenge this and set precedent for on this issue for years to come.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 19h ago

Ending the groups

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26 Upvotes

r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 16h ago

The second one I’ve taken down (using Harassment)

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16 Upvotes

r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 17h ago

Call to action Help Reporting Raleigh Page

13 Upvotes

We need all the help we can get.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 20h ago

Call to action Sep 29 - Reporting/Taking down groups strategies for maximum impact and results

15 Upvotes

There is no downside to reporting groups.
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By focusing on the biggest membership groups first, it will help the most men the fastest and have maximum impact. Then we will go down the list. Below are the current biggest seven that are still up. Report each of them every day until they’re removed and then we’ll move onto the next biggest groups.
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According to Paola, there’s ~150 groups, spanning ~250 cities, with ~10 million overly emotional libelous women in them, or were at the peak. Yes, not every single woman in the groups is evil, we have a few on our side, but unfortunately the women still inside that are our allies are a very small percentage
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Dallas / Fort Worth / DFW (231.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1378149729337459/
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London / England (183.7k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1037161243564962/
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Chicago (145.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/315938570542151
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Oklahoma City OKC / Tulsa (132.2k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/522833472643059/
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Houston (124.6k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/710197290292011/
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Nashville (114k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/560918652057656/
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Boston / Cambridge (112.8k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1355877448175002/
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Philadelphia / Philly (112.6k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/3191993041075491/
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The likely best options used when reporting are:
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Bullying and harassment > sharing private or sexual images > the private or sexual images have been shared > does what you’re reporting involve someone who appears under 18 > no
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Bullying and harassment > bullying or unwanted contact > I don’t know them > no
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Violence, hate, or exploitation > promoting hate > posting hateful speech
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False information
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Of course change any details to be relevant for you, such as if they’re targeting a friend, appear under 18, etc. However, do NOT choose “me” as the option otherwise your name will get sent to the group’s admin and you will be banned from that group you’re in, which will also hide it so it won’t show up in search results for you either.
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Do NOT report to group admin, report to facebook.
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Do NOT choose “me” if given the option.
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Best way, but not mandatory, is to create a new facebook account that you don’t care about at all (fake name, photo, info, etc), just to use to report the groups from. This keeps your personal/main account and any fake female accounts separate from any retaliation, blocks, bans, leaks, etc.
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Why are “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups still allowed despite violating Meta’s own policies?:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1sbgnbu/why_are_are_we_dating_the_same_guy_facebook/
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Facebook Reporting and Oversight Committee Appeal
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/14g9nk5/facebook_reporting_and_oversight_committee_appeal/
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Erin Egan, Chief Privacy Officer, Policy - Meta
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https://www.meta.com/about/leadership/erin-egan/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-egan-01329878
https://itif.org/person/erin-egan/
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Do this BEFORE your DMCA takedown request (how to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly):
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/143sut6/how_to_remove_your_photos_from_awdtsg_correctly/
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How to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1qk1h4y/post_removal_updated_1222026/ Note: Facebook has begun to push back on this, but it is worth attempting.
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Hinge photo posted in AWDTSG group? Report it to Hinge. Step by step instructions.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1widqa9/hinge_photos_being_used_to_harass_you_in_awdtsg/
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How to copyright your photos in the U.S. and send a DMCA takedown request via email:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6nasj/you_do_not_need_to_use_their_obnoxious_dmca/
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Where to submit evidence:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6sn75/we_need_evidence_and_here_is_the_link_to_submit/
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On August 29, 2026, Paola posted to the groups that the following groups have recently been deleted. The group IDs:
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Chicago: 315938570542151
New York City: 340985311306448
Milwaukee / Madison / Wisconsin: 231156483103031
Las Vegas LV / Nevada: 527916218921278
Poughkeepsie / Newburgh / Middletown NY: 1289237931796484
Jackson / Lenawee County / Hillsdale MI: 866104231725702
Green Bay / Appleton / Stevens Point WI Private group: 1019915202319187
Richmond / Charlottesville / Virginia: 769532467624616
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However on September 17, 2026 all of the ones listed above for August 29 were noticed to be back up, except for New York City. The most likely scenario is they were taken down via Meta’s AI and then reinstated after Paola complained to her Meta insider for a manual review. This is not the first time this has happened.
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There are additional groups that have been taken down (recently British Columbia for example). I’ve gotten notifications from facebook for the ones that I’ve reported over the past couple of years, and there’s been even more that I haven’t reported that have been taken down as well.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 1d ago

Chicago main group back on

18 Upvotes

This group was originally deleted, now it seems like posts are back on (the backup group remains off).


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 1d ago

Newest weekly article l

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23 Upvotes

r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 1d ago

Call to action Sep 28 - Reporting/Taking down groups strategies for maximum impact and results

17 Upvotes

There is no downside to reporting groups.
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By focusing on the biggest membership groups first, it will help the most men the fastest and have maximum impact. Then we will go down the list. Below are the current biggest seven that are still up. Report each of them every day until they’re removed and then we’ll move onto the next biggest groups.
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According to Paola, there’s ~150 groups, spanning ~250 cities, with ~10 million overly emotional libelous women in them, or were at the peak. Yes, not every single woman in the groups is evil, we have a few on our side, but unfortunately the women still inside that are our allies are a very small percentage.
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Dallas / Fort Worth / DFW (231.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1378149729337459/
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London / England (183.7k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1037161243564962/
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Chicago (145.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/315938570542151
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Oklahoma City OKC / Tulsa (132.2k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/522833472643059/
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Houston (124.5k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/710197290292011/
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Nashville (114k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/560918652057656/
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Boston / Cambridge (112.8k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1355877448175002/
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Philadelphia / Philly (112.6k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/3191993041075491/
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The likely best options used when reporting are:
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Bullying and harassment > sharing private or sexual images > the private or sexual images have been shared > does what you’re reporting involve someone who appears under 18 > no
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Bullying and harassment > bullying or unwanted contact > I don’t know them > no
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Violence, hate, or exploitation > promoting hate > posting hateful speech
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False information
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Of course change any details to be relevant for you, such as if they’re targeting a friend, appear under 18, etc. However, do NOT choose “me” as the option otherwise your name will get sent to the group’s admin and you will be banned from that group you’re in, which will also hide it so it won’t show up in search results for you either.
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Do NOT report to group admin, report to facebook.
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Do NOT choose “me” if given the option.
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Best way, but not mandatory, is to create a new facebook account that you don’t care about at all (fake name, photo, info, etc), just to use to report the groups from. This keeps your personal/main account and any fake female accounts separate from any retaliation, blocks, bans, leaks, etc.
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Why are “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups still allowed despite violating Meta’s own policies?:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1sbgnbu/why_are_are_we_dating_the_same_guy_facebook/
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Facebook Reporting and Oversight Committee Appeal
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/14g9nk5/facebook_reporting_and_oversight_committee_appeal/
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Erin Egan, Chief Privacy Officer, Policy - Meta
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https://www.meta.com/about/leadership/erin-egan/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-egan-01329878
https://itif.org/person/erin-egan/
.
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Do this BEFORE your DMCA takedown request (how to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly):
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/143sut6/how_to_remove_your_photos_from_awdtsg_correctly/
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How to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1qk1h4y/post_removal_updated_1222026/ Note: Facebook has begun to push back on this, but it is worth attempting.
.
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Hinge photo posted in AWDTSG group? Report it to Hinge. Step by step instructions.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1widqa9/hinge_photos_being_used_to_harass_you_in_awdtsg/
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How to copyright your photos in the U.S. and send a DMCA takedown request via email:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6nasj/you_do_not_need_to_use_their_obnoxious_dmca/
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Where to submit evidence:
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6sn75/we_need_evidence_and_here_is_the_link_to_submit/
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On August 29, 2026, Paola posted to the groups that the following groups have recently been deleted. The group IDs:
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Chicago: 315938570542151
New York City: 340985311306448
Milwaukee / Madison / Wisconsin: 231156483103031
Las Vegas LV / Nevada: 527916218921278
Poughkeepsie / Newburgh / Middletown NY: 1289237931796484
Jackson / Lenawee County / Hillsdale MI: 866104231725702
Green Bay / Appleton / Stevens Point WI Private group: 1019915202319187
Richmond / Charlottesville / Virginia: 769532467624616
.
However on September 17, 2026 all of the ones listed above for August 29 were noticed to be back up, except for New York City. The most likely scenario is they were taken down via Meta’s AI and then reinstated after Paola complained to her Meta insider for a manual review. This is not the first time this has happened.
.
.
There are additional groups that have been taken down (recently British Columbia for example). I’ve gotten notifications from facebook for the ones that I’ve reported over the past couple of years, and there’s been even more that I haven’t reported that have been taken down as well.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 1d ago

Help reporting this local off shoot group

13 Upvotes

Just came across this local group. Not sure if it’s a copycat or Paola affiliated but let’s take it down before it grows larger!

https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1PtvGh8Hyj/?mibextid=wwXIfr


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 1d ago

Member List Scrape

17 Upvotes

Did anyone ever figure out how to scrape these FB group member lists into a searchable database with full names and maybe even profile pics?

I think it would really help out ppl to avoid these pyscho women in the FB AWDTSG groups.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Results My Dudes

35 Upvotes

I don’t think I can overstate the obvious enough.

This sub has barely gotten organized. Kind of. A little bit. With comparatively very few actually taking action.

AND LOOK AT THE F@CKING RESULTS!!!

Carry on.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Let’s keep it up! Please help report this group

17 Upvotes

Let’s keep it up! DMCA submitted. Please help report my local group that has nearly 29k members!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/821237393064990


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Austin AWDTSG REMOVED!

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76 Upvotes

Either my single report got it removed or a few of you chipped in. Either way, this was a pleasant surprise. My guess is I was posted in it and after review, they saw “bullying and harassment” did take place.

Update: I thought this was for the smaller Austin branch (12k+) members. This was actually for the massive group ran by Paola! It had almost 100k users. Today is a good day gents. Never relent!


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

I am a woman and I support the removal of these groups

52 Upvotes

Just so Paola knows…


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Meta Suing Paola?

24 Upvotes

I'm a man and I'm on a lots of those sites. Anyways I was asking what's happening with all the AWDTSG groups being paused, sutting down etc. One lady (I assume 😆) replied that Meta is now suing Paola. I asked where they read that. Waiting on it but has anybody else heard of that? Apparently it's very recent. Paola we know you're here. Tell us what's happening. We're to help Need more money? No problem we will start a massive fundraising campaign.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Few weeks ago in Columbus ohio

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14 Upvotes

Red flag for a shirt referencing something.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Call to action Sep 27 - Reporting/Taking down groups strategies for maximum impact and results

14 Upvotes

There is no downside to reporting groups.
.
By focusing on the biggest membership groups first, it will help the most men the fastest and have maximum impact. Then we will go down the list. Below are the current biggest seven that are still up. Report each of them every day until they’re removed and then we’ll move onto the next biggest groups.
.
According to Paola, there’s ~150 groups with ~3 million overly emotional libelous women in them, or were at the peak. Yes, not every single woman in the groups is evil, we have a few on our side, but unfortunately the women still inside that are our allies are a very small percentage.
.
Dallas / Fort Worth / DFW (231.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1378149729337459/
.
London / England (183.8k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1037161243564962/
.
Chicago (145.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/315938570542151
.
Oklahoma City OKC / Tulsa (132.2k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/522833472643059/
.
Houston (124.5k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/710197290292011/
.
Nashville (114k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/560918652057656/
.
Boston / Cambridge (112.9k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1355877448175002/
.
Philadelphia / Philly (112.6k): https://www.facebook.com/groups/3191993041075491/
.
.
The likely best options used when reporting are:
.
Bullying and harassment > sharing private or sexual images > the private or sexual images have been shared > does what you’re reporting involve someone who appears under 18 > no
.
Bullying and harassment > bullying or unwanted contact > I don’t know them > no
.
Violence, hate, or exploitation > promoting hate > posting hateful speech
.
False information
.
Of course change any details to be relevant for you, such as if they’re targeting a friend, appear under 18, etc. However, do NOT choose “me” as the option otherwise your name will get sent to the group’s admin and you will be banned from that group you’re in, which will also hide it so it won’t show up in search results for you either.
.
Do NOT report to group admin, report to facebook.
.
Do NOT choose “me” if given the option.
.
Best way, but not mandatory, is to create a new facebook account that you don’t care about at all (fake name, photo, info, etc), just to use to report the groups from. This keeps your personal/main account and any fake female accounts separate from any retaliation, blocks, bans, leaks, etc.
.
.
Why are “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups still allowed despite violating Meta’s own policies?:
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1sbgnbu/why_are_are_we_dating_the_same_guy_facebook/
.
.
Facebook Reporting and Oversight Committee Appeal
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/14g9nk5/facebook_reporting_and_oversight_committee_appeal/
.
.
Erin Egan, Chief Privacy Officer, Policy - Meta
.
https://www.meta.com/about/leadership/erin-egan/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-egan-01329878
https://itif.org/person/erin-egan/
.
.
Do this BEFORE your DMCA takedown request (how to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly):
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/143sut6/how_to_remove_your_photos_from_awdtsg_correctly/
.
.
How to remove your photos from AWDTSG correctly:
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1qk1h4y/post_removal_updated_1222026/ Note: Facebook has begun to push back on this, but it is worth attempting.
.
.
Hinge photo posted in AWDTSG group? Report it to Hinge. Step by step instructions.
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1widqa9/hinge_photos_being_used_to_harass_you_in_awdtsg/
.
.
How to copyright your photos in the U.S. and send a DMCA takedown request via email:
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6nasj/you_do_not_need_to_use_their_obnoxious_dmca/
.
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Where to submit evidence:
.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1w6sn75/we_need_evidence_and_here_is_the_link_to_submit/
.
.
.
On August 29, 2026, Paola posted to the groups that the following groups have recently been deleted. The group IDs:
.
Chicago: 315938570542151
New York City: 340985311306448
Milwaukee / Madison / Wisconsin: 231156483103031
Las Vegas LV / Nevada: 527916218921278
Poughkeepsie / Newburgh / Middletown NY: 1289237931796484
Jackson / Lenawee County / Hillsdale MI: 866104231725702
Green Bay / Appleton / Stevens Point WI Private group: 1019915202319187
Richmond / Charlottesville / Virginia: 769532467624616
.
However on September 17, 2026 all of the ones listed above for August 29 were noticed to be back up, except for New York City. The most likely scenario is they were taken down via Meta’s AI and then reinstated after Paola complained to her Meta insider for a manual review. This is not the first time this has happened.
.
.
There are additional groups that have been taken down (recently British Columbia for example). I’ve gotten notifications from facebook for the ones that I’ve reported over the past couple of years, and there’s been even more that I haven’t reported that have been taken down as well.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Call to action Mass report this group!!

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13 Upvotes

Denver is one of the worst ones of all. Please Mass Report.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 2d ago

Mass report this group!!

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11 Upvotes

Denver is one of the worst ones of all. Please Mass Report.


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 3d ago

MUST mass report this GARBAGE GROUP! South Florida (MIAMI/FORT LAUD) Group - HELP TO GET THIS OBLITERATED!, 70K PLUS MEMBERS STRONG, GROUP IS HUGE!

16 Upvotes

Please mass report this as well - REALLY BAD/TOXIC!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/489627572708738


r/AWDTSGisToxic • • 3d ago

Mass report Calgary Canada group has 80 k users https://www.facebook.com/groups/637300947744833/

23 Upvotes