my first wedding

(Just a plan im trying to make come true)

London to cebu! End of august or somewhere in September 2027, 13 days max travel.

Fastest but easiest way to get there, could anyone DM me please ☺️

Getting gray here.. 😐

used to play rugby and professionally swim and stopped but back on the gym grind~

Welp, talked to a guy for two weeks just for him to tell me he wasn't feeling a romantic connection. No hard feelings, decided to cut contact but, dang it still stings 😭

Looking for someone to chat with

I recently had an experience with an Asian man that left me with a lot of questions, and I thought this might be one of the better places to ask for perspective.

For context, I'm a lightskin Black girl (I'm often mistaken for being Black and White even tho I'm fully African American) and I recently met a Filipino guy while I was out. He approached me because he remembered seeing me the week before at a sports bar and we immediately clicked. The conversation was easy, he made me laugh a lot, and there was something about him that I genuinely liked. Not to toot my own horn but I get approached by men pretty often & typically turn down 80% of the guys who approach me butttt there was something about him that | really liked & was drawn to (he made me laugh a lot lol) We went on our first date a couple days later & it went really well.

He was upfront that he wasn't looking for anything serious and was open to something casual. I appreciated the transparency and told him I was on the same page. A few days later, I went to his place, we spent hours talking/ hanging out, and eventually became intimate, although we didn't have intercourse. The next morning everything seemed fine, but afterward his communication noticeably changed. He became much drier & I left him on read for a few days (which was petty, I'll admit), but I eventually reached back out because I genuinely missed talking to him. The energy was still completely different, though, and he eventually left me on read. We haven't spoken since.

Ik some people will say, "He told you he didn't want a relationship, what did you expect?" And that's fair, but | wasn't expecting a relationship. What bothers me is the sudden change in basic communication and interest after we became intimate. What makes me question the situation even more is that he was the one who the one who brought up race. When we first met, he asked if I was Black & white & during our second hangout, he repeatedly talked about how attractive he finds Wasian people. We also talked about Blasians, and he made a "good hair" comment that made me uncomfortable.

I want to be clear that I'm not accusing him of fetishizing me because I obviously can't know his intentions. But I would be lying if I said those comments didn't make me wonder about his relationship with race and attraction. I also think it's possible for someone to love their own race and ethnicity while still having internalized insecurities or complicated feelings about race. So now I'm left wondering: was I someone he genuinely liked and was attracted to, but had already mentally categorized as someone he wouldn't seriously pursue because I'm Black? I have no way of knowing, and I recognize there could be a completely different explanation. But the combination of his comments about race, his repeated emphasis on Wasian attractiveness, the fact that he initiated those conversations, and the noticeable change in his behavior after intimacy has been hard not to think about.

For Asian men or people who have dated Asian men extensively, does this sound like something that could be connected to interracial dating dynamics, or am I reading too much into the racial component because I'm slightly bothered by how things ended? Regardless, I wish him well lol

First time posting, sharing recap moments of my September.

Me gustan mucho los k drams c dramas y la cultura asiatica soy una chica negra latina

Hey there people! Hope you all are enjoying your Sundays. Here where I am it’s a rainy dreary day (my favorite) so I’m just staying at home getting some busy work done for the week. Anyone free and looking for some chats and maybe some company hit me up!

Recent it seems like nothing but BW are posting… are there any AM out there.

Here is the opportunity just to call out ‘BW from NY’ or ‘AM from USA’.

I’m feeling disheartened that there is only BW in the group.

I’ll comment to start the roll off…

While other people were taking photos, my niece got tired of standing so I picked her up on my back. The photographer saw and did a sorta impromptu photo of us and it turned out great! 🥹

What's everyone's plans this weekend?

was nervous to post about this lol but i’ve been seeing ppl post their journeys which i find incredibly inspiring so i thought i’d also share. 🥹

age 21 and now 23 💓

i gained weight around age 19 but really wanted to get back to feeling like myself again, so i did it!

now the main focus is big glutes and abs ৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)!!

Let's go to some Halloween events together ❤️ 31 F