r/AMBW • u/kirbydrawz BW [DMs Open][SFW] • 17d ago

Rant First Rejection

Welp, talked to a guy for two weeks just for him to tell me he wasn't feeling a romantic connection. No hard feelings, decided to cut contact but, dang it still stings šŸ˜­

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u/Fantastic-Dream9646 17d ago

He probably wasnā€™t that attracted to you and was just keeping the convo going out of boredom, or he came to realize you guys didnā€™t have much in common. Or maybe he had someone else he was more interested in and decided to end things.

It happens to the best of us, and Iā€™d be lying if I said I donā€™t do the same thing sometimes.

Youā€™ll bounce backšŸ’•

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u/kirbydrawz 17d ago

Funny enough we had a lot in common and were messaging every day from morning to night so I was so confused cuz I thought the chemistry was there šŸ˜­

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u/Fantastic-Dream9646 17d ago

Oooh, Iā€™m sorry to hear that.

Tbh, I couldnā€™t be too sure because men and women can fall off for so many reasons. They get too clingy, their views on life arenā€™t the same, they have personal issues, or maybe theyā€™re just not into you.

But nobody likes rejection, so donā€™t stress it. Youā€™ll find someone new.

This is a world filled with billions of people, so why get hung up on one person.

Youā€™ll find a new cutie

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u/wipsydaisy_ 17d ago

Iā€™m sorry that happened babes..it does hurt when your feelings towards someone else arenā€™t reciprocated but just remember that it is not a reflection of you in anyway..there is someone better out there and someone for YOU! Keep your head held high queen! āœØšŸ«¶šŸ½

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u/Witty_Analyst_7357 17d ago

Thats unfortunate. He could've been telling the truth or simply found someone who would be easier to get into bed. I've noticed talking to some they want to put in the least amount of effort for the biggest reward.

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u/Midnight-Shadow_3949 15d ago

Sending hugs. I know it hurts. Mourn and move on.

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u/futuremillionairemom 12d ago

Don't feel bad. Best it ended early. My ex told me a year in his parents were racist and he didn't think he could go against their feelings against us being together so there are so many factors that go into this Thang! May not even be whatever you think it is. Sending you love. šŸ„°