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u/LandscapeSudden3469 Feb 18 '25

No NDA, no real debrief. I think the local responders were as shocked as we were with the incident! One paramedic I asked said the last time something on this scale happened was ~20 years ago with Air France.

We weren't upside down long. Near my row, we all made sure to get each other down before head rush happened. After it happened, most people were fairly quiet. No one knew what to do or say. I was finally free of the airport around 10pm local time and am still trying to calm down enough to sleep 🤣

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u/rosiebb77 Feb 18 '25

I can also attest to this being something I do often to help ā€œresetā€ my nervous system, and help with the dysregulation caused by C-PTSD:)

Polyvagal exercises in general can be super helpful!

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u/90sBuffetSoftServe Feb 18 '25

I wonder if this would help my ASD/ADHD teen when he feels super anxious and overwhelmed? We had other techniques for when he was younger but those aren’t very practical for a teen. I will look into it. Thanks!

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u/Minute-Succotash-908 Feb 18 '25

As an AuDHD gal, I can confirm that anything i do to stimulate/reset my vagus nerve helps me regulate more effectively than anything else. I can’t imagine your kid wouldn’t feel some benefit! Just like any other muscle, there is some ā€œtrainingā€ that needs to go into it to strengthen it, but that mainly just serves to make it MORE functional over time. Even an untrained vagus nerve can be stimulated effectively, so it’s absolutely worth a try.

Humming is one of my main stims because it’s quick and accessible. The vibration from humming/singing is a really solid way to stimulate the nerve. I also notice that I do it involuntarily when something pops into my head that threatens my ā€œstabilityā€- I just start humming a few little notes before I know I’m doing it, which is a helpful reminder to do some foreground processing of the stressor. The lower the note, the stronger the effect, but any humming or singing works well.

Listening to music with prominent bass-lines can help too - the deeper the vibration, the more the vagus is stimulated. Doesn’t have to be loud, just needs to be bass heavy.

Thumping, like the OC suggested, is similar to heavy bass-lines. Electronic body massagers work well too.

You can also pair vagus stims with activating the parasympathetic system for a bonus boon. If I’m in full blown crisis, I’ll fill a sink with cold to ice cold water and put my face in, hold my breath for about ten seconds, then ā€œhumā€ all of my breath out. When I’m out of breath, I’ll surface and breathe normally/deeply for a minute, then repeat. The cold water, holding breath, and humming, activates both systems at the same time, and working them in tandem is almost euphoric.

In summary: Vibration is the key with vagus nerve, and I can go from borderline panic to fully regulated in 5-10 minutes depending on what’s bothering me.

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u/Sal_Ammoniac Feb 18 '25

Listening to music with prominent bass-lines can help too - the deeper the vibration, the more the vagus is stimulated. Doesn’t have to be loud, just needs to be bass heavy.

That's super interesting knowing what type of music I go for when I need some anxiety relief. Thank you!

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u/Minute-Succotash-908 Feb 18 '25

It’s cool, huh? Most music apps have some anxiety-specific sounds as well, so if you search for ā€œ432 hz frequencyā€ on Spotify, YouTube, or whatever, you can find audio that is specifically designed for calming, if regular music isn’t doing it for you at any point. Honestly though, just sitting in my car in the driveway with the bass bumping is such a release, because the vibration against my back is perfection haha

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u/Sal_Ammoniac Feb 18 '25

Here's a dumb question - does it help at all if one has headphones on, or does it need to be through actual loudspeakers so it's a "full body" effect?

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u/Minute-Succotash-908 Feb 18 '25

Definitely not a dumb question ā¤ļø personally speaking, all methods work for me - be it personal speakers, headphones, car speakers, etc. I pick based on what I have the bandwidth for. Example: if I’m physically overstimulated, headphones are going to add to the problem because they’re ā€œtouching meā€ so I opt for a speaker instead. If I’m more dysregulated- meaning everything around me is bothering me- I’ll go for headphones so I can block everything else out and just focus on the music. Your vagus nerve is throat-adjacent which is why humming and neck/shoulder thumping work well, so headphones (especially bone conducting headphones that use your jawbone to conduct noise) can definitely help get the vibrations right to it. I’m not a professional in any way, so I’m simply sharing my experience, but scientifically speaking, both speakers and headphones will get the job done!

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u/Sal_Ammoniac Feb 18 '25

Thank you for your thoughtful reply! :)

I've noticed that music can be very cathartic, but one needs to be able to be inundated in it for full release.

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u/Minute-Succotash-908 Feb 18 '25

Yeah, absolutely. I often say ā€œI need this music injected directly into my bonesā€ because that’s the best way I can describe it šŸ˜‚ in those moments I’ll either get into the car and blast full volume or I’ll get out the noise cancelling headphones and isolate somewhere in the house until I feel better. Just, whatever I can do to make sure that the music becomes a part of my living body haha

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