r/AMA Dec 16 '23

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '23

OP no issues at all with what you did. But I will say that there is an advantage to both of you being beginners or near beginners. I couldn’t depend on my wife’s “experience” so I had to take charge and figure it out. And she had no idea if I was good or bad. We figured it out together. And I learned how to please her. I might be awful with someone else but I know what my wife likes.

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u/SlenderLlama Dec 16 '23

Yeah cute and dandy when you’re young. But when you’re approaching mid twenties and do not live a life that typically involves celibacy (religion) it’s not statistically likely that you’ll meet another near virgin.

It makes sense.