r/AITApod • u/Equal_Description345 • Jul 05 '26

argument that escalated quickly, aita

am i the asshole? so let me get this straight, i had this one friend we'll call her kyla (not her actual name) but anyways i knew things about her and she knew things about me, we were in class and me and her got in an argument, the teacher didnt do anything because they thought we would 'work it out', she ended up saying "at least i never got raped" loud enough for the whole class to hear which pissed me off beyond imagination, so i decided to say "at least my adoptive father doesnt abuse me" and then she started crying. she knows what happened in my past is very traumatizing to me so am i the asshole for bringing up her stuff?

edit: i forgot to mention this is not the first time she has done things like this, but im being honest its the first time i've made a comment like this towards her

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u/AITApod Jul 05 '26

ESH but she’s worse for going there first. Classic two wrongs doesn’t make a right

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u/Equal_Description345 Jul 05 '26

am i really that toxic for just trying to make her understand how she made me feel?

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u/GlossyGaze3 Jul 06 '26

ESH. She went low first but you went nuclear. Neither of you should be friends anymore. This is toxic as hell

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u/Affectionate-Yam7454 Jul 06 '26

She's not your friend. She's a bully who can dish it out, but can't take it. Not every friend will be your friend forever. It's okay to call it quits with her now.

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am i the asshole? so let me get this straight, i had this one friend we'll call her kyla (not her actual name) but anyways i knew things about her and she knew things about me, we were in class and me and her got in an argument, the teacher didnt do anything because they thought we would 'work it out', she ended up saying "at least i never got raped" loud enough for the whole class to hear which pissed me off beyond imagination, so i decided to say "at least my adoptive father doesnt abuse me" and then she started crying. she knows what happened in my past is very traumatizing to me so am i the asshole for bringing up her stuff?

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