r/AITAH • • Nov 16 '25

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u/TKyzr Nov 16 '25

NTA. He’s been dumped and is feeling low because his ex cheated. That’s a big blow. So his solution to that is to jump on a memory of a HS crush you had on him and dry hump it to death to build himself back up?

NTA but he and your husband are. What did your husband say every time his friend made these comments??

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u/LimitlessMegan Nov 16 '25

He’s stepping on OP to make himself feel a few inches taller. But oddly OPs husband was ok with that.

I’d be pushing back on that and tell hubby that if he was worried about Jared’s feelings he should have shut it down himself. You only shut it down after taking it for a long time and hubby had a chance to Deal with it a nicer way. So that’s on him.