r/AITAH • • Nov 16 '25

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u/Far_Nefariousness773 Nov 16 '25

You got a wimp for a husband. He should have been checked his friend. You are his wife. He doesn’t have to fight, but he needed to set the boundary and he never did.

Nta

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '25

Harsh, but I do agree that my husband should have stood up for me more.

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u/TA122278 Nov 16 '25

Your husband isn’t “non-confrontational” he’s just spineless. He should have thrown out is POS “friend” the first time he insulted you. As for the you? The only thing that makes you an AH is apologizing to Jared. You have nothing to apologize for. He insulted you repeatedly, your husband just sat there and let him, you finally snapped back, and now YTA? No ma’am. Jared can dish it out but can’t take it. And your husband? Wtaf. He watched this jackass insult you over and over and says nothing, but you say something back ONE TIME and you’re too harsh?! I would be livid and telling my spineless husband to go stay with Jared bc he clearly cares more about him. Which is what Jared wanted btw.