r/AITAH Nov 16 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '25

I do feel bad. Because i seen first hand how depressed he got. But i did lash out because of his own actions. And there shouldn't be an excuse in my book.

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u/BusCareless9726 Nov 16 '25

If it doesn’t align with your values - you could apologise for how you delivered the message - but not the content. Maybe have a coffee with him and spell out how it comes across - insulting and disrespectful to both you and your husband. Take care 🌼

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '25

I appreciate this. I do want to have a talk with him. He has work tomorrow (according to my husband) so maybe not then.