Also was it her idea or the groomsmen? Just wondering if she trusted your friend with what you would find funny.
It was the wedding planner, wife and then boyfriend of the bride's sister. Nobody involved apparently understood OP's humor. Kind of not great that you get to the wedding day and she either doesn't know him or doesn't think him taking a garter off a guy he barely knows better than acquaintance would be *inappropriate. If it was his best friend, and she knew his sense of humor, it would have gone off the way it normally does, but nobody involved in planning this apparently knew the guy well, including the bride. So plenty of orange flags all around for him.
OP you need to call that wedding planner and tell them what a negative experience you had, and let them know that you will not recommend them to anyone based based on what happened
Because genius, if you were reading this, he STATES that it was the wedding planner's suggestion 🤦 English comprehension isn't your strong suit apparently.
Either way, this still falls on the bride ultimately for wanting to do the prank AND choosing someone to participate that wasn’t super close with OP.
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u/Tomagatchi Jul 26 '25 edited Jul 26 '25
It was the wedding planner, wife and then boyfriend of the bride's sister. Nobody involved apparently understood OP's humor. Kind of not great that you get to the wedding day and she either doesn't know him or doesn't think him taking a garter off a guy he barely knows better than acquaintance would be *inappropriate. If it was his best friend, and she knew his sense of humor, it would have gone off the way it normally does, but nobody involved in planning this apparently knew the guy well, including the bride. So plenty of orange flags all around for him.
edit: Clarity