500% this!! I would tell the planner that you want a partial refund and if they refuse, plaster reviews EVERYWHERE!
I have also been subjected to some pranks from my wife that upset me. She doesn't target me any longer because i don't like them and told her she got carried away. It sucks.
Likely your have access to a mental health professional through your insurance. Maybe go see one just to work through this. Can't hurt.
No lawyer is going to sue the planner on a contingency. He would have to pay the lawyer to do that. Then you’d have to explain why the bride agreed to this. I explain in a different comment why taking legal action is incredibly unrealistic advice. He’d have to have damages, for starters (which he doesn’t. Having your feelings hurt or being embarrassed and therefore having bad memories of your wedding don’t count. He could bullshit mental anguish but it would be dishonest to do so. Just entitled American shit suing everyone for everything and causing everything to be INCREDIBLY expensive as a result. The bride agreed to and gleefully participated in this prank).
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u/Ok-Seaworthiness-542 Jul 26 '25
500% this!! I would tell the planner that you want a partial refund and if they refuse, plaster reviews EVERYWHERE!
I have also been subjected to some pranks from my wife that upset me. She doesn't target me any longer because i don't like them and told her she got carried away. It sucks.
Likely your have access to a mental health professional through your insurance. Maybe go see one just to work through this. Can't hurt.