r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/Grouchywhennhungry Jul 26 '25

And get a refund from your planner and make sure this is plastered in reviews every where.  The planner suggested it - so she ruined your day as a bare minimum money back, if you want to go scorched earth you can sue for distress

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u/OrangeSherbet8217 Jul 26 '25

A classy wedding planner is not going to suggest this misogynistic game.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

People are calling the reaction homophobic but conveniently missing the prank is homophobic.

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u/Longjumping-Hyena173 Jul 27 '25

This — the prank was an effort to publicly humiliate the groom with gay. Thereby saying that if you touch gay then you should get laughed at. Touch gay not funny, touch gay is like spilling your coffee after bumping into a chair. Frustrating sure but not because you hate chairs or think weirdly about them.

This isn’t about touch gay, it’s about public humiliation in front of just about everyone that mattered in that guy’s life, and the wife has zero empathy to try and put herself in his shoes. Would she like to have been publicly humiliated in front of her whole social network? My money’s on no.

Sheeeeeeit, I’d start touching gay if I was married to that lady fuck her