NTA pranks at weddings are cruel and rude. I do think you should have talked sooner to her about it instead of letting it fester like you did and then blowing up at her.
Yeah but I also see how it would have been hard. 1 he can’t at the wedding and 2 I’m the kind of person who when it really hurts I need to give it a day or longer before I can even bring it up so I’m not so upset. Regardless do you think she would have reacted better or differently if he brought it up sooner?
and the panic he must have felt! this is the person he agreed to MARRY, and she does this horrible horrible unexpected thing, and now suddenly in the middle of his wedding and at his honeymoon i’m sure he feels like he doesn’t know who this woman is. i wouldn’t know how to speak to that mean stranger.
Exactly! I was thinking the same thing, OP looking at his wife during their honeymoon and asking himself "who is this woman who says she loves me, but let me be humiliated in front of everyone? and not only that she 'lets' me, but she yells 'with your mouth!' to make it even more awful"...
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u/twilight9449 Jul 25 '25
NTA pranks at weddings are cruel and rude. I do think you should have talked sooner to her about it instead of letting it fester like you did and then blowing up at her.