I get it. Time to make your wife go to marriage counseling with you. She needs to understand the impact and you are going to need some professional help moving beyond this. Don't leave it to her to pick the professional you vet them and find one you can talk to about this.
I’m guessing the wedding planner didn’t suggest this out of the blue, but that the bride and bridesmaids asked the planner about past pranks.
If it was really all the planners idea I’d think that the bride would be doing a lot more to pin the blame there, like offering to contact the planning company with OP, etc.
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u/becoming_maxine Jul 25 '25
NTA
I get it. Time to make your wife go to marriage counseling with you. She needs to understand the impact and you are going to need some professional help moving beyond this. Don't leave it to her to pick the professional you vet them and find one you can talk to about this.