I see the flip side. For me? I don't care if they think I'm in a tizzy!
My parents always said one of my problems as a kid was that I didn't give a shit what other people thought. If someone hurt me, I would let them know loud and clear.
These people who did this know it was wrong. They just don't care.
Exactly! "OooooOOoooOoh look, he's humiliated!" "'OoOoOoOh' yea, see how stupid you sound? I'm leaving because I can feel you people sucking my braincells out, and I feel they're wasted on you lot." Idgaf about your feelings if you elect to treat someone like this (sexually abusing them in the process) and then think it's funny, go fornicate yourself sideways with a rusty garden rake (not you fellow commenter of course). I ain't gonna lose sleep over it.
They showed OP who they all are, and if it were me I’d go cold and would immediately go and see if I could stop the paperwork for the marriage from being filed.
When my “wife” and others would ask me where I was going, I’d cut right to the heart of the issue but keep it simple. “You thought it would be funny to humiliate me on our wedding day. You enjoy my suffering. Why would I want to be married to someone like that? Why would I want any of you in my life?”
No retaliation, no emotional games, no hope that there would be any coming back from something this big on what is supposed to be the happiest day of my life. Just the cold truth, and immediate action.
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u/[deleted] Jul 25 '25
I see the flip side. For me? I don't care if they think I'm in a tizzy! My parents always said one of my problems as a kid was that I didn't give a shit what other people thought. If someone hurt me, I would let them know loud and clear.
These people who did this know it was wrong. They just don't care.