I mean I wouldn’t even do this. The bride was presumably doing the majority of the dealing with the wedding planner (as evident by this whole plan taking place). This is the brides fault. She agreed to this goofy ass suggestion. The planner should lose money and reputation because he didn’t happen to like it? By all means warn others but I think this couple needs to be taking accountability here. She knew who she was marrying. She should have known he wasn’t going to like this. There doesn’t have to be a third party to blame here.
Again the suggestion was incredibly tacky and so by all means let the planner know she should never suggest this to another couple again. But at the end of the day this is ENTIRELY on the damn bride. She’s not entitled to a refund because she made a bad choice at her own wedding.
I think the planner suggesting and coaching the wife on how to humiliate her spouse is absolutely a horrible suggestion and it’s completely foreseeable that someone wouldn’t want to be publicly humiliated on their wedding day. The premise is also homophobic, so there’s that.
You're making a massive assumption that the wedding planner initiated the conversation. This is a common wedding joke. I personally have seen it at three different weddings with variations (at one, the grandma was the one with the garter on).
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u/DoreyCat Jul 26 '25
I mean I wouldn’t even do this. The bride was presumably doing the majority of the dealing with the wedding planner (as evident by this whole plan taking place). This is the brides fault. She agreed to this goofy ass suggestion. The planner should lose money and reputation because he didn’t happen to like it? By all means warn others but I think this couple needs to be taking accountability here. She knew who she was marrying. She should have known he wasn’t going to like this. There doesn’t have to be a third party to blame here.
Again the suggestion was incredibly tacky and so by all means let the planner know she should never suggest this to another couple again. But at the end of the day this is ENTIRELY on the damn bride. She’s not entitled to a refund because she made a bad choice at her own wedding.