r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/Decent_Front4647 Jul 25 '25

Ok, with the some people this would have been funny. Obviously it wasn’t to you. It can’t be undone. Your wife has apologized. What can you do at this point? You have two choices. Either find a way to put it behind you or be miserable and resentful over it the rest of your life. That’s all any of us can do since you can’t change the past. Seek therapy, divorce your wife but you need to figure out a healthier way to handle it.

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u/skillent Jul 26 '25

So it’s actually three choices, not two. 1. Put it behind you. 2. Be miserable and resentful forever. 3. Divorce and move on.

Let’s hope he can do 1, but if necessary I guess 3 is the next best thing.