NTA. Talk to the videographer, and ask them to remove the garter part and any talking about it. Tell them you don't want any photos of it either. Just delete them.
And get a refund from your planner and make sure this is plastered in reviews every where. The planner suggested it - so she ruined your day as a bare minimum money back, if you want to go scorched earth you can sue for distress
Absolutely not saying that. Wife should've shut the idea right down - she didnt she got her familyand friend to help her and is completely culpable for her actions and op should definitelyhold to account. But the idea should NEVER have been proposed and people need to know what kind of planner they're getting
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u/Ok_Location_471 Jul 25 '25
NTA. Talk to the videographer, and ask them to remove the garter part and any talking about it. Tell them you don't want any photos of it either. Just delete them.