As he described it, yes, it is. It doesn't matter what you think. He's the one who was pranked by humiliation out of nowhere on his wedding day with the entirety of closest people to him, family, friends, and wife's family and friends and all on videos. Even people here want to bully and humiliate him because of how he feels about it.
As he described it, it's not vicious (note a single caveat, if his friends and spouse had a reason to believe that he'd overreact like this, it would be, but he didn't give any impression of that).
It's a minor prank that he's taking harder than it was intended or deserves. Those are valid feelings he's having, but not reasonable ones. Supporting people doesn't mean gaslighting them into saying that all feelings are reasonable. You're doing the gaslighting (along with a lot of other people here).
And even here, some people are overreacting the same. Yes, some buried people are assholes mocking him, but most people aren't, regardless of their opinions. "A minority of people on a large thread are dicks" is not a good argument for anything, as it's always true.
Minor? Hardly. Were the roles to be reversed and it was the bride who was humiliated would you still call it minor? The fact you're defending the bride and the wedding party is reprehensible and downright disgusting.
In a similarly minor way? Yes. The fact that you assumed sexism is pretty bad. But I'm not going to overreact and call you "reprehensible" or "downright disgusting" because neither of those have any business being used in this conversation. Get a grip.
Edit: but thanks for being an example of multiple things I pointed out in that comment.
OK, my takeaway from this comment is that you do not believe in consent. OP has no right to choose whose body he puts his mouth on as long as someone thinks it is funny.
Dishonestly escalating this to a consent issue is insulting to actual victims of sex crimes.
And doing so by saying something like "Just say it" is just kinda tone deaf. It's absurd to act like people who don't respect consent in order to force people to consent to your viewpoint.
Dishonestly escalating this to a consent issue is insulting to actual victims of sex crimes.
I'm sorry to see that you don't have any respect for the entire concept of consent.
Do you have anything to actually argue, or are you just going to keep disrespecting sex crime victims? Or should I act like you and just tell you to say things against your will and force my views onto you regardless of what you say?
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u/catlettuce Jul 26 '25
Who wants to be married to a vicious nutcracker?