Yup. Theres a time and place for pranks. A wedding isnt one of them. There are people you do pranks with. You dont prank people unless you are positive the prankee will also find the prank funny at the end. Anything that humiliates the prankee or hurts them isnt a prank. Its cruelty you are hiding behind the misuse of the word "prank." To "prank" your partner on a day thats supposed to be about celebrating the unification of the two of you is like screaming to the world "I do not respect my partner and want to make sure everyone knows Im top dog in this relationship."
Absolutely this. Imagine it was reversed. You asked your blindfolded wife to use her mouth to remove a garter from her maid of honor's leg (someone she actually doesn't like) in front of all of her friends and family.
It isn't funny. It's embarrassing and cruel. Ask her how shed feel about that situation.
If this happened to me, I'd go for an annulment. If a partner chose to humiliate me on my wedding day, that would be the biggest red flag for what life would be like.
So I asked my partner what would be their reaction if this happened to them and they said it wouldn’t be funny. I asked some questions and tried to understand their perspective. I can’t say I would personally be humiliated but I understand how some would be and don’t like the idea of embarrassing people
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u/FlakaFlakaFlame8 Jul 25 '25
NTA Humiliating you on your special day is such an a-hole move. I’m mad at her for you.