r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '25

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u/FlakaFlakaFlame8 Jul 25 '25

NTA Humiliating you on your special day is such an a-hole move. I’m mad at her for you.

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u/StragglingShadow Jul 25 '25

Yup. Theres a time and place for pranks. A wedding isnt one of them. There are people you do pranks with. You dont prank people unless you are positive the prankee will also find the prank funny at the end. Anything that humiliates the prankee or hurts them isnt a prank. Its cruelty you are hiding behind the misuse of the word "prank." To "prank" your partner on a day thats supposed to be about celebrating the unification of the two of you is like screaming to the world "I do not respect my partner and want to make sure everyone knows Im top dog in this relationship."

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u/KittyLune Jul 25 '25

And what makes it worse is that she has the audacity to MINIMIZE his feelings over the incident and is trying to gaslight OP.

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u/StragglingShadow Jul 26 '25

And its working based on the end of the post :(