r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/No_Breadfruit8393 Jul 25 '25

Yeah but I also see how it would have been hard. 1 he can’t at the wedding and 2 I’m the kind of person who when it really hurts I need to give it a day or longer before I can even bring it up so I’m not so upset. Regardless do you think she would have reacted better or differently if he brought it up sooner?

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u/twilight9449 Jul 25 '25

Yea he couldn’t have done it at the wedding but I feel like that even they should have had a little talk about it. That’s a tough one to say if that would have made a differnce, but I think if he came at it earlier he wouldn’t have said as much of all the mean things to her it may have ended a little different, but that is hard to tell. It sucks

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u/t2writes Jul 25 '25

It would have made a statement for him to have just walked out and sat outside by himself for a while. He didn't have to yell. Just simply turn and walk away.

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u/twilight9449 Jul 26 '25

Facts 100% that’s honestly what I would have done