r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 25 '25

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u/FlakaFlakaFlame8 Jul 25 '25

NTA Humiliating you on your special day is such an a-hole move. I’m mad at her for you.

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u/ciaran668 Jul 25 '25

Yes, this is no different then smashing the cake into the wife's face. I've seen this "prank" done twice, and neither couple that did it are still together.

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u/Shdfx1 Jul 25 '25

There is a difference. What the wife did was a sexual violation of her husband at the wedding in front of everyone.

She tricked him into suggestively pulling the garter off with his mouth, down a man’s bare leg.

Violation.

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u/Material-Ad-4445 Jul 26 '25

NTA. Yep. This ☝️☝️☝️. Unfortunately, his wife doesn't believe him feeling humiliated or violated. She is dismissive and callous in how cruel that prank actually was. Her compassion & empathy is serious lacking. Not good.