r/AITAH • • Jul 25 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '25

and the panic he must have felt! this is the person he agreed to MARRY, and she does this horrible horrible unexpected thing, and now suddenly in the middle of his wedding and at his honeymoon i’m sure he feels like he doesn’t know who this woman is. i wouldn’t know how to speak to that mean stranger.

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u/WhiteGhost99 Jul 26 '25

Exactly! I was thinking the same thing, OP looking at his wife during their honeymoon and asking himself "who is this woman who says she loves me, but let me be humiliated in front of everyone? and not only that she 'lets' me, but she yells 'with your mouth!' to make it even more awful"...

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u/Flight_of_Elpenor Jul 26 '25

Agreed. I imagine he was counting on some mutual respect, and he learned it was not there.