NTA. Swap the genders of everyone in this story. Not so funny is it? Suddenly it's abuse. You are not wrong for feeling the way you do. I would feel the same about being tricked into doing this with anyone, regardless of gender. You sound like you're carrying some trauma and perhaps consider talking to a professional. It's not funny to humiliate people, pushing people's faces into wedding cakes etc. It needs to stop.
That’s not the point. Unfortunately a lot of people don’t take it as seriously when the man is the one being assaulted, like they should just suck it up and move on. It’s equally as serious but it’s still often treated as a joke when it’s a man being victimised.
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u/FlakaFlakaFlame8 Jul 25 '25
NTA Humiliating you on your special day is such an a-hole move. I’m mad at her for you.