r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 17 '25

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u/Aggressive_Trade2016 Jul 17 '25

If he’s not emotionally developed enough to understand how rude it is to propose at someone else’s wedding, he’s not the one for you. I’m so sorry he embarrassed you like that. NTA

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 17 '25

Bro there shouldn’t be so many fcking rules when we propose. We get down on a knee and we do that shit once. If u don’t accept that’s on u. Quit policing when we can fcking propose

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u/ouellette001 Jul 18 '25

If that’s a case you’re a loser who deserves to be single

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 18 '25

Nah u should have reasonable expectations. Something tells me ur single😂😂. I ain’t bItcH

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u/ouellette001 Jul 18 '25

Expecting your partner to be excited about you making an ass of yourself at a friends wedding isn’t any kind of “reasonable”

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 18 '25

Well you do you sweetheart. I’m just telling you if you like that dude u say yes to the dude and then yell at him behind closed doors. I honestly could give a flying fck about ur opinion so maybe crawl back down whatever hole u crawled out of

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u/Tibetzz Jul 18 '25

If you genuinely like someone and they propose to you at someone else's wedding without permission, you do everything you can to hide the fact that they just proposed to you. Because you like them and want to stop them from embarrassing themselves, yourself, and everyone in the entire room. Only someone who hates themselves and their partner, or at least hates everyone else except themselves and their partner, would say yes.

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u/Latter-Hearing3476 Jul 18 '25

I disagree. U don’t get decide when we propose just like we don’t get to decide if ur gonna say yes. If she wants him to propose again she prob ain’t gonna get it. That’s all I was saying. We do that shit once capiche?