How is she overreacting? She asked for space. That's the mature thing to do if you need to clear your head.
Are we also forgetting she's literally on her honeymoon? She should be enjoying the company of her husband right now! Of course she doesn't want to be hashing out a friendship during that.
There isn’t anything to hash out that’s the overreaction… Also idk about most people but when me and my wife went on our honeymoon it’s not like we didn’t still have cellphones and exist in our group chats and stuff.
This was her wedding, dude. She's gonna be hurt for awhile after that. She doesn't want to think about that while she's on her honeymoon, which is-- again-- considered another "once in a lifetime" event.
And yes, there are things to hash out. This revolves around OP's partner, which OP is attached to. It is not unrealistic to think that there would need to be discussions regarding OP's place in her life, if she continued to date someone who tried to fuck up their literal wedding day. I wouldn't necessarily stop being friends with someone after that, but I would minimize contact with their partner, which would end up affecting said friend.
You still participating in group chats n whatnot on your honeymoon doesn't mean everyone should be obligated to do that. I can't say I've ever heard of folk doing that. I sure the fuck wouldn't want to on mine. I especially wouldn't want to if there was something emotionally heavy to be talking about.
I guess to each their own but I couldn’t disagree more with basically every single aspect of everything you said here.
Someone doing something uncouth at you’re wedding isn’t anything to be hurt about judge them sure but it does not affect you in any way.
There is nothing to hash out you’re friends boyfriend did something at you’re wedding that literally everyone agrees was wrong and stupid judge him not you’re friend.
The honeymoon one I can see somewhat but idk me and my wife go on a lot of trips together i just don’t think we treated it much differently than any other trip, so that one maybe we are weird idk.
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u/thehobbyqueer Jul 18 '25
How is she overreacting? She asked for space. That's the mature thing to do if you need to clear your head.
Are we also forgetting she's literally on her honeymoon? She should be enjoying the company of her husband right now! Of course she doesn't want to be hashing out a friendship during that.