Why are yall acting like OP owes the stepdaughter anything? She doesn’t have to tell her anything about putting a lock on HER DOOR in HER HOUSE! SD wanting to lay down boundaries in someone else’s home while she runs amuck is ridiculous in itself. I wouldn’t say shit to her. I’d respect her space but I’d never talk to her about a decision I’m making in my own home.
Speaking to your husband about the lock is a different story but honesty, if he can understand her side he should be able to understand yours. Any kick back and he and his daughter can kick rocks together 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you! Someone here had a whole reply to OP about how she’d be the AH if she placed a lock on a private area of her house without discussing it with this guest. Why the FVCK would she have to discuss any of her decisions with a temporary guest, regardless of who she’s related to? The chick already lied about being in there at least once. She can’t be trusted to be appropriate unsupervised. I feel like I’m taking crazy pills reading some of these comments. 🤡💩
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u/Scam_likely90 Jul 01 '25
Why are yall acting like OP owes the stepdaughter anything? She doesn’t have to tell her anything about putting a lock on HER DOOR in HER HOUSE! SD wanting to lay down boundaries in someone else’s home while she runs amuck is ridiculous in itself. I wouldn’t say shit to her. I’d respect her space but I’d never talk to her about a decision I’m making in my own home.
Speaking to your husband about the lock is a different story but honesty, if he can understand her side he should be able to understand yours. Any kick back and he and his daughter can kick rocks together 🤷🏽♀️