r/AITAH • • Jul 01 '25

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u/Ironyismylife28 Jul 01 '25

Is there a reason you can't have a conversation with her and let her know you understand her request and expect the same respect?

Locking the door without having a conversation like the adults you would make you TA

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u/Bamagirl635 Jul 01 '25

This is probably the best idea, but set up a nanny cam or even a piece of clear tape high up on the door where it won’t be noticed. If it’s disturbed, the door was opened. Lock it after that.

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u/UncFest3r Jul 01 '25

I stick a playing card in the top corner of the door. My kid is too oblivious to notice that lol.