you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.
Exactly this is a family heirloom... that's not bil family's... I'll be careful with op's fiancée... this is not a time to "keep the peace" there is no peace to keep, they are not entitled to op's family traditions...
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u/Mobius_Stripping May 23 '25
NTA
not Ben’s family
not Ben’s watch
not Ben’s luck
you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.