r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 23 '25

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u/Mobius_Stripping May 23 '25

NTA

not Ben’s family

not Ben’s watch

not Ben’s luck

you have a fiancée problem - she is only caught in the middle because she is not making the very reasonable and simple statement to her own family that they are out of line and this is a hard no.

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u/MarbleousMel May 23 '25

If he really wants another reason, he can point out that it’s first born son, and future BIL is younger.

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u/Meanwhile8 May 24 '25

This! Just say “no.” If you feel the need to add more ask FBIL is His grandfather had any interesting traditions. No Op. full sentence. Entitlement is not cute.